Your life isn't falling apart. Your soul is waking up.
You've built a good life. You're the capable one, the reliable one—the woman everyone counts on. But beneath the surface, there's a quiet ache you can't quite name. A persistent stirring that whispers: "You've done enough improving. It's time to come home to yourself."
This isn't another self-improvement program.
The Whole Soul Way™ is a sacred journey that teaches you how to use everything in your life—your triggers, struggles, relationships, and daily challenges—as the curriculum for your soul's evolution and emotional awakening.
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New Here? Start With the Free Foundations Course
The complete Whole Soul Way foundations—all six modules plus a comprehensive nervous system course—is available for free on Season 1 of the ELATE Podcast and on my YouTube channel.
This is where you learn the proven 4-step Soul Way GPS™ process to transform old wounds into wisdom, integrate your shadow, reparent your inner child, and regulate your nervous system.
Start here first. These foundational teachings will change your life. Then, when you're ready for more support, come back to explore the Evolution Membership below.
[Listen to the ELATE Podcast →] | [Watch on YouTube →] | [Download Free Workbooks →]
Ready for More? Join The Whole Soul Way Evolution Membership
You've been listening. You've been learning. And now you're ready to go deeper.
Maybe you've been following along with the podcast, working through the modules, doing the exercises. And something's shifting inside you—you can feel it.
But here's what you're also feeling: I need more support. I need help applying this to MY life. I need a place to practice, to process, to be witnessed. I don't want to do this alone anymore.
The content is the foundation. But true transformation happens in community, with support, and through practice.
This Is Your Invitation to Make a Sacred Commitment to Yourself
Joining The Whole Soul Way Evolution Membership isn't just about getting more resources (though you absolutely will).
It's about making a declaration: I'm worth this. My healing matters. My wholeness matters. And I'm ready to stop going it alone.
It's about finally giving yourself what you've been giving everyone else for years—devoted attention, consistent support, and a safe space to actually grow.
What You Get as an Evolution Member
Private Community Forum & App (Off Social Media)
A sacred space for real women doing real work, supporting each other 24/7. No algorithms. No distractions. Just connection.
Complete Organized Membership Site
All the podcast content PLUS Rounds 2 and 3—structured, easy to navigate, with advanced teachings, resources, and worksheets that take you from understanding to mastery.
Monthly Live Group Coaching & Teaching Calls with Deb
Get personalized guidance twice monthly for your real-life situations, witness other women's journeys, and go deeper into the concepts with teachings and Q&A.
This Is What Commitment Looks Like
You can keep doing this alone—listening to the podcast, working through the modules by yourself, trying to figure it all out in isolation.
But why would you? Why would you continue to carry this alone when there's a room full of women ready to walk beside you?
Your soul didn't lead you to this work just to do it halfway.
You've come this far. You've done the brave thing of starting. Now it's time to do the even braver thing—letting yourself be fully supported
Your wholeness is the world's healing.
And this is where that healing deepens.
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What you can count on in this program:
A clear, repeatable process to coach yourself to unhook from the relentless pressure that weighs you down, conditioning that sabotages your life, and unhealthy patterns that create disconnection in your relationships.
The supportive, uplifting, and inspiring environment you need so you can let go of the burden of feeling alone with your pain. The process, people, and support that will change your life in all the best ways.
Expert guidance on the common pitfalls in inner work, deep healing, reparenting and shadow work and how to avoid them, tools for building internal safety before going deeper, and specific techniques for working with resistance and fear.
Tools and resources to bring what you learn into your day-to-day life. Self-inquiry worksheets that make your journaling valuable. Meditations that feel productive. Quick healing tools that can be used while driving or waiting.
An organized flow with methods for pacing the work according to your life and what you're ready for, plus ways to measure your progress and stay on track. There is no "behind" but it helps to know where you're going!
Because you and your loved ones deserve to know and connect to the true nature of who you are! And you need to know exactly how to do it!
This is exactly what I need! I'm In!
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Meets You Where You Are AND Takes You Deeper
What makes The Whole Soul Way truly unique and transformative is Deb's commitment to continue to meet you where you are while guiding you into deeper layers of healing and integration.
NOTE: Only Round 1 is available for FREE on YouTube and Deb's Podcast
Currently, the program has 3 rounds:
The Woman Who Joins this Journey
Is looking for a guide who can actually take her deeper - someone who she can finally rest in following rather than always having to take the lead.
Wants her edges pushed and perspectives expanded even when it's uncomfortable, because she knows that's where real growth happens.
Wants to transform her relationships by being authentic - shifting patterns, opening her heart, owning her projections - not just learning better communication skills.
Has collected enough practical tools and yearns for approaches that take her to new depths of self-inquiry and transformation.
Wants to be guided to walk her own path not told what path to walk - to discover her truth, not have it imposed.
Is ready to develop unshakeable self-trust through deep inner work rather than external validation.
She knows her soul came here to evolve and she's really ready to do that sacred work.
She's seeking community with other mainstream women doing real inner work so she can feel inspired, connected, and less alone on this path.
But Deb...
“I'm good. I've got this on my own.”
I get it. As a lone wolf myself, I know how vulnerable it feels to admit you need help, especially if you're already in a helping profession or have done extensive healing work.
But here's the truth: Sometimes we can't see ourselves as clearly as others can. Even the most insightful among us benefit from external perspective and support.
It takes time, practice, and yes, support to truly transform. Being witnessed by others is healing. Learning from others' experiences makes us feel less alone. You can be incredibly smart and know so much, but there's power in having someone weave it all together, contextualize your experiences, and guide you towards what you want.
Sometimes, the bravest thing we can do is to let down our guard and reach for the support we need to become who we're truly meant to be.
And...this program is such a beautiful blend of self-leadership and access to support!
"It's a busy season for me! I don't have the time for this."
You might think, "I have too much on my plate right now. I'll wait until things calm down."
But consider this may be the perfect time!
What if you had the right tools and support to help you through this busy season in an empowered way, instead of just bracing for the worst and hoping you make it through? Imagine navigating difficult times in a way where you feel centered, confident and calm. Picture relationships where conversations flow without a constant undercurrent of tension. Envision flowing with the busy time rather than feeling thrown off by it.
Here's the thing: it only takes one good reason to go for it. And that reason is that some part of you wants it. You've lived long enough to know that the "perfect time" never comes. There will always be a reason why now isn't right.
But what if, years from now, you look back and thank yourself for taking the leap? For investing in yourself even when a part of you had a million excuses? This is your chance to get off the fence and into the land where you MAKE things happen.
Why This Work Matters Now More Than Ever
As women in the second half of our lives, we're facing unique challenges:
- Our roles are shifting as children grow up
- Our bodies are changing in ways that challenge our identity
- Society often makes us feel increasingly invisible
- We're questioning our purpose and relevance
- We're longing for deeper meaning and connection
This is precisely why now is the perfect time for this work. These challenges are invitations to finally come home to ourselves in a way we couldn't before.
Sure, you probably have a lot on your plate, and you could definitely put this work on the back burner for now… at least until life settles down.
But each day you wait is another day that you:
- continue to feel disconnected from yourself and others, even in your closest relationships
- use food, alcohol, shopping, or constant busyness to numb the emptiness
- feel increasingly invisible and irrelevant as you age
- watch your children repeat patterns you wished you could have healed
- miss opportunities for deep connection because you're afraid to be vulnerable
The hidden cost of not doing this work isn’t just personal—it ripples through your entire life.
🥺 Relationships that could have deepened never do.
🥺 Your children inherit patterns you wanted to heal.
🥺 Your body carries the weight of unprocessed pain.
🥺 The stress negatively impacts your health.
But the greatest cost?
>>> The love you never fully feel.
>>> The impact you never fully make.
>>> The aliveness you never fully experience.
Every day you wait, the gap grows wider.
Now is the time to close it.
The Good News...
It's not too late.
Every symptom of disconnection is actually a doorway to healing. Every pattern of reactivity is a chance to parent yourself differently. Every feeling of emptiness is your soul calling you home to yourself.
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For the Woman Who Still Has Questions. I've Got Answers.
Since it's a monthly membership, you can cancel your membership anytime. With that said, it sometimes takes a few months to get your groove in the membership site and on the calls. I'd suggest that if you're considering canceling, reach out in the community and tell everyone what's going on. Sometimes we just need a little extra support and we're here for you!
When you register, you will be asked to sign an agreement and pay. After that, you'll get an email to confirm the purchase, and a copy of our agreement.
You'll also receive an email with login details to give you access to the online platform (membership site) where the lessons, forum, and group call replays will reside.
I encourage you to head in, browse around and dive in!
You'll also get a some emails to walk you through getting started!
You will have access for as long as you are a member.
As of 2026, I don't have any planned.
No problem! If you join Evolution and gain access to live group coaching calls, but you can't make it live, they will be recorded and uploaded to the Membership Site.
You can access them via your computer or an app on your phone.
However, I do think it'd be best if you arrange your schedule to be on most of the calls live because that will provide you with the best opportunity to connect with others and to get your own personalized support.
Most of our calls are around 12pm PT / 3pm ET on Fridays. However, as we grow, I will be adding other days and times.
The Group Coaching Calls run about 2-2.5 hours. Teaching calls tend to run about 60-90 minutes.
No, there will not be 1:1 time with Deb. But here are some of the ways you will access support.
Monthly Group Calls: On these calls, you will be able to ask questions and get personalized coaching and guidance from Deb. Additional teaching and ad hoc coaching calls will be added. Typically we meet twice per month.
Within the Lessons and Forum: You'll get support in the course platform and online community forum where you'll be able to ask questions, support others, share your wins, learn from others, and receive "micro-coaching" from me (and my team and the community).
The more you engage, the more support you'll experience.
If you tend to sit back and be more of an observer in programs, this will be a great chance for you to push that edge and ask for what you need, ask questions, and engage.
The women who have been through the program have found that it's an incredibly safe and supportive group.
Wonderful!
Here's the most important question to be asking yourself - are you experiencing the level of self-empowerment, inner peace, fulfillment, and ease in your life that you desire?
I can't get over how many times I meet women who appear to have it all together, but underneath they are so stressed out, working so hard to keep it all together, taking things personally, coming home to their children and being easily triggered, feeling like she's a fraud or that she's too much and has to curate herself, powering through life but wishing she could let go of some of the control, and the list keeps going on and on.
Many of these women have taken leadership classes, experienced meditation programs, learned communication skills, and attended team building retreats. They may have amazing interpersonal skills, but the place they're lacking is in their relationship with themselves.
I even see this in the spiritual spaces. So many women who have deep meditation, breathwork, or yoga practices, but their day-to-day lives are still fraught with so much struggle and challenge. They know how to get to stillness, but they haven't integrated this into their daily lives.
What I'm getting at here is that if you aren't experiencing the peace, aliveness, connection, and fulfillment that you want, you will definitely benefit from The Whole Soul Way.
One more thing. I have been on my healing and awakening path for over 17 years and I'm humble enough to know that there is always more for me to learn, unconsciousness to be made conscious, opportunities to go deeper, barriers to remove, and new layers to be healed. I continue to seek out new mentors to ensure that I am evolving and growing.
The question isn't whether you can benefit from more healing or to learn or grow more.
A more helpful question is, "Is The Whole Soul Way the program that you most resonate with to support you at this current moment in your life for the specific growth your Soul is calling you toward?"
You are definitely not alone! It’s natural to feel both drawn to and fearful of emotional intimacy. The Whole Soul Way™ meets you where you are, providing a safe, supportive environment to explore vulnerability at your own pace. Emotional intimacy doesn’t mean sharing everything all at once; it’s about building trust with yourself first so you feel confident opening up in relationships when you’re ready.
Many women who join The Whole Soul Way™ are frustrated because they've done therapy and it hasn't taken them deep enough.
This program isn’t just another tool or expert telling you what to do. It’s a comprehensive framework designed to empower you to become your own guide. By integrating emotional healing into your daily life, this program takes you beyond intellectual understanding to real, embodied transformation.
If you dive in fully, watch the videos, do the exercises, push your edge, engage in self-inquiry, and participate in the community...you WILL go deeper and experience the shifts you desire!
This program isn’t about blowing your life up—it’s about integrating healing into the life you’ve already built. The Whole Soul Way™ empowers you to make shifts that feel aligned and manageable, not overwhelming. You’ll discover that even small adjustments can create profound changes without upending everything you’ve worked hard for. Deb will always encourage you to trust yourself above all. And you'll never be pressured into anything. Ever.
Healing doesn’t mean giving up the joys in life—it enhances your ability to enjoy them fully and without guilt. The Whole Soul Way™ helps you uncover what truly nourishes and excites you while cultivating the inner strength to do more of what you love and less of what you feel like has been expected of you. This isn't a space where you're expected to become some "idea" of a spiritually evolved woman. This is where you DECIDE what a spiritually evolved and emotionally mature woman is FOR YOURSELF.
Conflict is part of healthy relationships, so TWSW will equip you with tools to navigate these dynamics in a way that is honoring of yourself and others.
Even more importantly, you’ll grow to feel empowered to own your truth without fear of upsetting others.
But rest assured, you won't be pressured to do anything, including confront others or set boundaries, until you know it's the right next step for you.
Facing the past doesn’t mean reliving it—it means gently releasing the grip it has on your present. The Whole Soul Way™ uses compassionate practices to help you process emotions safely and without overwhelm. You’ll move through feelings at a pace that honors your readiness, freeing yourself from their weight without unnecessary pain.
However, you must trust yourself. If you feel a lot of apprehension, you may want to pause and sit with this. This program's not going away anytime soon, so you don't have to rush into it.
Girl, I hear you. I used to wonder why anyone would WANT to feel their emotions! But I've learned, first hand and watching countless women...that emotional healing doesn’t make you weaker—it makes you stronger in ways you’ve never imagined. The Whole Soul Way™ helps you blend your toughness with authenticity and vulnerability, creating a resilience that’s unshakable. A flexibility that's liberating. You’ll discover that being “soft” is actually a superpower, enabling you to connect deeply without losing your edge.
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