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The Self-Abandonment Wound is Repairable!

Self-Love/Self-Worth·Deb Blum·Dec 13, 2025· 1 minute

When you were little, you learned to be acceptable to the grownups—to adapt and survive.

You cut off your big feelings, your needs, your truth to stay safe and loved.

But now? You're doing this TO YOURSELF.

What was survival back then is self-harm now.

It's time to stop.

Become your own best friend. The parent who listens. The one who says: "I'm here. You're not alone anymore."

It’s time to stop hurting yourself, rejecting yourself, and perpetuating old wounds.

Rebuild a healthy, loving relationship with yourself—slowly, gently, deliberately.

Your wholeness is waiting.

And it starts with choosing yourself, first.

This is exactly what The Whole Soul Way teaches you to do.

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This isn't theory—it's a step-by-step methodology for coming home to yourself.

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