Self-Love

You’ve probably heard people say “you can only love others as much as you love yourself.” Myth or reality? I think it’s a myth. I mean, you…Read more
Ten years ago, I was deeply entrenched in the belief that if my husband would be more romantic, affectionate, connected, attentive, helpful, fill in…Read more
In memory of my mom who died on May 2, 2021. At the very end of my mom's life, my dad and I slept in her room with her. One night I slept at the …Read more
Red Pen the Shoulds
Sometimes when we feel busy we end up not proactively looking at our schedule and making sure we're focused on the right things. Sometimes we do …Read more
It's so easy to get confused and think self-love is all about following your moment to moment feelings, only doing what feels good, always choosing …Read more
What is Self-Abandonment? (Vlog)
Most of us never got all of our needs met as a child, so we spend the rest of our lives hoping that others will meet those needs for us - spouse, pa…Read more
Raising Kids Who Love Themselves and Thrive
Most of us struggle with the very real and painful condition of never feeling good enough. And it got created in childhood with the best of intentio…Read more
When Mindfulness Feels Too Hard
:: Context - I broke my Greater Trochanter / Upper Femur in a skiing accident 12 days before I wrote this ::  ​Lying in bed last night I got caught…Read more
I've always been tough on myself around exercise and healthy eating. I never felt like I WANTED to exercise so I forced myself. I craved sugar and c…Read more