Ten years ago, I was deeply entrenched in the belief that if my husband would be more romantic, affectionate, connected, attentive, helpful, fill in…Read more
By default, if you’re a parent, you worry. We know in our minds that worrying doesn't help, but that doesn't seem to stop us. You know h…Read more
In memory of my mom who died on May 2, 2021. At the very end of my mom's life, my dad and I slept in her room with her. One night I slept at the …Read more
Are your children your own
I truly believed that I was parenting in a very open-minded and progressive way prior to reading a book called Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn…Read more
Red Pen the Shoulds
Sometimes when we feel busy we end up not proactively looking at our schedule and making sure we're focused on the right things. Sometimes we do …Read more
It's so easy to get confused and think self-love is all about following your moment to moment feelings, only doing what feels good, always choosing …Read more
What is Self-Abandonment? (Vlog)
Most of us never got all of our needs met as a child, so we spend the rest of our lives hoping that others will meet those needs for us - spouse, pa…Read more
The Silent Marriage Killer
Click here to listen to the short TikTok video I recorded about this When you said “I do” to your partner, I’ll bet you never thought you'd becom…Read more
Raising Kids Who Love Themselves and Thrive
Most of us struggle with the very real and painful condition of never feeling good enough. And it got created in childhood with the best of intentio…Read more